Monday, June 7, 2010

A day of disapointment and wonderful women

Lessons I have learned today:

Sometimes you have to put your foot down. You HAVE to stand up for what you feel is right. Even if this goes against your own nature. Even if you have to rock that boat. Even if you draw unwanted attention to yourself, there are somethings you can not let go.

Sometimes you can share your feelings and concerns and they are just not heard. You can yell or you can cry.
You can stay calm or you can stay emotionless.
You can do all of these above and still get no where. You can repeat yourself a zillion times, and sometimes, people just refuse to hear you and there is nothing you can do to change this.

Sometimes there are going to be things that happen that you feel are just plain wrong. And sometimes there is nothing you can do about it other than share your opinion, even if it is unwanted and unheard.
The not being able to make a change is a hard thing to swallow.

Sometimes, even if you feel like no one has heard you, at least you spoke up. Sometimes you can fight for what is right with all you have and come out with only the knowledge that you have done this.
Sometimes that just has to be good enough.

Sometimes the people you expect to be by your side are not. It is how we handle the let down that is a true test of character.
Sometimes, I don't handle let down well. Maybe my true colors are not always as cheery as I'd like to think they are.

Sometimes the people you don't expect to be there for you are the ones that are.
Sometimes people that are not invested in your situation at all are still willing to put their self on the line, right along with you.

Sometimes just having someone say are you OK is a beautiful thing.
I am thankful for many ladies.

This one's for you, girls.

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